I was married to "Tom" for two years before he died eight months ago. We started dating almost nine years ago after his first wife died, but decided to marry after he got sick. Tom had a retirement plan with a former employer of almost $200,000 and he told me that his children were the beneficiaries. I have now learned that I am the beneficiary even though the children were named, because of a federal law. How do I explain this to his children? I am afraid it will look like I did something behind their back, but I honestly had no clue that I was the beneficiary. Help me understand this.
When dealing with the death of a loved one, the emotional turmoil can be overwhelming. In situations involving blended families, like yours, the intricacies of finances and inheritances add an extra layer of complexity. If you’ve recently discovered that you are the beneficiary of your late husband Tom’s retirement plan—despite his children being named on his will—understanding the rules governing retirement accounts under federal law is crucial.
The Role of ERISA
The Employee Retirement Income Security Act (ERISA) governs many retirement plans in the United States and was established to protect the interests of employee benefits plan participants and their beneficiaries. One of its key features is the requirement for retirement plans to provide survivor benefits, particularly to spouses. Here’s how it affects your situation: